How to Start Travelling Solo With Confidence
You’ve reached a crossroads. Maybe life has shifted, a long partnership ended, a career change, an empty nest, or simply the echo of that old, persistent urge to see more of the world.
Travelling on your own can feel equal parts liberating and daunting. Perhaps you’re wondering: how do others begin? What does it really feel like, turning up somewhere new, not as part of a couple or a familiar group, but as yourself - independent, quietly confident, and open to surprise?
Every year, more Australians choose journeys that put their own needs, interests, and pace first. And it’s rarely about ticking off landmarks or conquering fear. Instead, it’s about making space for yourself, freedom, and sometimes, healing.
Summary
- Practical and emotional tips for first-time independent travellers
- Real quotes and stories from those who made the leap
- How women-only tours, small ship and river cruising, and themed journeys create comfort and connection
- Reassuring advice for balancing independence with support
- Direct links to practical guides and solo travel options
Why Choose Independence?
Life changes can leave you searching for a new rhythm. Sometimes it’s loss, sometimes it’s renewal, or maybe just curiosity. For many, the best part of travelling independently is being able to put your own interests front and centre.
Which Travel Style Fits You Best?
You can shape your journey to fit your own comfort and curiosity, while still choosing the level of structure that suits you.
Women-Only Tours
Many women find these journeys offer support and shared understanding, without feeling overprotected. Days are spent exploring, learning, and sharing meals or stories—always with the freedom to step away for quiet time.
Curious about women-only travel options and what to expect?
Explore women-only tour packages →
Small Ship Cruising: Comfort and Camaraderie
If you love the idea of unpacking once and having days at your own pace, small ship cruising is a gentle entry point. Ships like Le Paul Gauguin offer a balance of company and space. Mornings start with the ocean breeze, afternoons can be as social or private as you wish, and there’s always a friendly face if you want to chat. To dig deeper, here’s my small ship cruising guide.
Considering a luxury cruise experience with rich cultural encounters?
See what makes Paul Gauguin Cruises special →
River Cruising: Effortless Exploration for One
River cruises feel like a floating neighbourhood. The pace is gentle, the groups are smaller, and every meal brings a chance for connection—if you want it. Many first-time solo travellers are drawn to river cruising because it’s easy to navigate, the crowd is friendly but not overwhelming, and the scenery changes with every bend. If it's your first time thinking about a river cruise, see my guide to river cruises.
Interested in history & travel with purpose?
Review these battlefield river cruises →
Small Group Land Tours and Themed Adventures
If you prefer land, small group tours create natural opportunities for connection, with plenty of time for yourself. For those interested in music, art, or history, themed trips like music journeys through the US or battlefield tours in Europe offer an easy way to meet kindred spirits without pressure.
Looking for inspiration from solo travel in Europe?
Read my article for independent male travellers →
Confidence: Building It, Step by Step
Start Small
A short cruise, a guided weekend away, or even a city break is all it takes to realise you’re more capable than you thought.
Safety Without Fuss
You can build trust in yourself by planning ahead. Check reviews, ask questions, and choose options that don’t feel too rigid or controlling.
Quiet Joys
Some of the best moments happen in solitude, a book under a tree, a slow coffee, the freedom to change your mind mid-day. For many travellers, small acts like these foster security and confidence.
Company—When You Want It
You’re never forced to join in. Many journeys now cater for singles, couples who want their own rooms, or friends who prefer a bit of distance at night. Whether you want a chat at dinner or quiet at sunset, you’ll find your own balance.
Want flexible travel with your own room or space?
Browse solo traveller-friendly packages and find your best fit →
Practical Resources for Your Journey
If you’re looking for honest tips, planning guides, or just reassurance, I’ve written and gathered these resources for you:
Ready to Start Dreaming?
You don’t have to have it all mapped out. Sometimes, just reading one more story or asking one more question is the beginning.
Not sure where to begin?
Start with my solo travel guides and reach out if you’d like a personal chat →
Meet Your Accredited Tour Specialist, Philip
As a Council of Australian Tour Operators (CATO) Certified Tour Specialist, I’ve gained in-depth knowledge through specialised training with CATO members, enabling me to provide clients with expert tour advice and help them book with confidence. Read More
FAQs
Is it safe for me to travel on my own for the first time?
With the right planning and support, yes. I offer options that make solo travel easier and less stressful, so you can focus on what matters most to you.
Are there solo trips that allow for my own space?
Absolutely. Many tours and cruises now cater for solo rooms, or for couples and friends who want privacy at the end of the day.
What is river cruising like if I’m travelling on my own?
River cruises are friendly and unhurried, with lots of chances for relaxed conversation or time alone. Themes like battlefields or wine make it easy to find your crowd.
Can I find a travel group that matches my interests?
Whether it’s music, food, or history, there is something out there for you. I’ve curated a selection of themed journeys and am always happy to personalise recommendations.
How can I read more or get advice?
You’ll find practical guides and honest stories in my solo travel articles.
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